Napoleon was, by any reasonable accounting, a genius – a military mind who rewrote the rules of European warfare, a political operator who fought his way up from being a minor league Corsican nobility to the Emperor of France and ruler of most of modern Europe before he turned 35, and a reformer whose ideas around the judicial system and the liberal order still echo today.

But none of that stopped him from making one of the dumbest decisions any leader has ever made, because he was arrogant, because he’d gotten away with so much for so long that he confused his luck for a system, and because (with the exception of Talleyrand) most of the people around him had simply stopped telling him no.

Source: Sometimes powerful people just do dumb shit

Muted a whole bunch of political / upsetting terms. Unfollowed people posting non-stop dread bait. This was crucial to regaining an even keel.

The whole article is worth reading. Lots of good advice for keeping sane during <gestures around> all this. But I especially like the term “dread bait”. It definitely captures the spirit of a certain kind of poster who shares every horror and atrocity seemingly in the hopes that “someone” will Do Something, or rather maybe just engage with their post and make them feel like they’ve Done Something.

Reblog via ssweeny

The latest in a series of “self-help” style books I’ve gotten from the library this year.

This one had by far the “loosest” prose. Probably because the author started as a blogger rather than an academic. But this style helped the “anecdote interspersed with lessons learned” pattern that these books tend to use feel less stale.

I do think the overall lesson of “you are mortal and therefore can only give so many fucks, so choose carefully what to give a fuck about” is probably more necessary now than ever and I’m so glad I read this one.